Relationships police officers dating
Even with all the incredible technology out there to help people connect, there appear to be a couple of consistent truths in dating as a female officer no matter how old you are or how scared you may be to get out there and try to meet someone. During the course of the relationship he is promoted. On top of this, being a female, I am constantlky subject to rumor after rumor, and a lot of sexual harrassment...Always put your safety first, even when you are really lonely. 1 1/2 years after this promotion you are still together, deeply love each other. Ive been to HR we do not have a fraternization policy. Feels like the bullseye is on him that even though the town attorney, manager etc have said off duty we can. Somedays, I just want to turn my stuff in and quit.I actually find most of the male cops are actually married to stay at home moms or women that are rather docile & subservient. Women look for equals, men look for the damsel in distress.I think a woman with authority and toughness has sex appeal.I wish I could find a nice female or male Police officer to start a Friendship with...I am in the Buena Park, California area should anyone like to comment. Dated two female cops in my short time as a cop myself... Second one was super nice and caring at the beginning but shortly turned into a super bitch.
So we have to make extra efforts to really get out there in the world to meet dateable people. Well, what do you do when you become close to a co-worker and begin a relationship while he is your equal. This has been so stressful and we both have serious stress and anxiety issues from this.
I've asked myself, are there special challenges for me because I'm an officer?